Once upon a time, there was a friend who told me that there are four significant phases of life which will somehow change our character in a way or another.
The first phase is when you start a job/career.
The second phase is when you get married.
The third phase is when you get your first child.
The fourth and last phase is when you get your second child.
I'm not so sure what was his source, and I'm not sure whether he said this based on his own experience. Anyway, if the above is somehow true, I'm now passing through my fourth phase of life. And if by any means my character is going to change, I hope the changes will be in the good direction lah.